Friday, January 8, 2010

Online Dating

So I am considering online dating again. When my dating pool dries up, I really don't have lots of options for meeting new girls. The ward is worthless. It is full of cliques. Bars are a waste of time. None of my friends are really interested in setting me up with girls anymore. I have pretty much exhausted all of my resources except for online dating. I tried online dating earlier last year but was not particularly pleased with the experience. I met three girls in the three months I was online. TheWriter and I are kinda moving towards a friendship right now, FormerLesbian is basically out because I just am not interested in her, and the other girl was just a mistake (she never received a nickname).

So the question is, should I give online dating another try? There were plenty of attractive girls using the online dating last time. Unfortunately, most of them were not paying customers so if I did send them a message, they could not read it unless they subscribed. At least if I knew who could read my messages, maybe I could make a better decision about who to message. Plus, there were some very aggressive girls on there. One girl began chatting with me and basically within 5 minutes, she demanded that I ask for her phone number. I wasn't attracted to her, I was roped into chatting with her because you can't see who the chat request is from until AFTER you accept it. I was just trying to be nice. A very nice girl in the Philippines wanted my number the first time we chatted. It just didn't work out. Have any of you tried online dating? What sites work the best? Am I going to meet any Mormon girls on eharmony or match.com? What are other ways to meet girls when you are done with school?

4 comments:

  1. Ug!! This is why I never go on dates... guys give up too easily in there areas....

    NO offence I'm sure you've tried pretty hard... but some guys don't and they just give up because sometimes girls don't want to have to do all the work...

    You could always try messager. Girls who usually are on there a lot probably don't have a good dating life and this way it's not like... "I want a mate..." Ha ha....

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  2. I would gladly fly to Canada for a date with a potential girl, Lachele...

    I am sorry that boys are not trying hard enough Drama Diva. What do you mean try messager? What is messager? Did you mean Instant Messenger (i.e., Windows Live Messenger)? Did I quit online dating prematurely?

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