On Saturday, I had my third date with Mya. On Friday night, I was hanging out with Milo, RunsWithScissors and my friend Chimichanga and they started making me very nervous about the date. Milo was "dropping some knowledge" on me, as he is prone to do, about how I don't have enough mystery with Mya. I spent most of Saturday thinking about whether I need to change the way I act at all around Mya to try and get her to be more interested in me (I think this could be defined as "playing games"). I wouldn't know how to pull something like that off even if I wanted to. Ultimately, I decided to just be myself. If I sent texts to Mya that were too cute or too sweet, it was just me being me and if it was too much and she gets scared off, then I guess we don't have as much chemistry as I thought we did. Thankfully, thus far Mya seems to really accept me for who I am. I am sure part of it is because Mya is a single mother. She is more real than most of the girls I date. She has to be. Five years ago, I am not sure we would have been compatible at all. But now, it just seems to work.
I decided to take Mya to my favorite Indian restaurant and then to a small venue concert. The dinner was excellent; we made jokes with each other and never ran out of things to talk about. Oh, and Mya looked spectacular. After dinner, we drove over to the concert. As we were getting out of the car, Mya realized that she had forgotten her ID. Unfazed, we drove out to Platinum's house to pick it up. I got to meet LittleMya there. LittlePlatinum was immediately super excited to see me and I think it helped my case with LittleMya. I played with the girls for a few minutes (they would slap my hands like they were giving me five and then I would exclaim "ouch!" which they loved). Not that I was acting any different around them than I would any kids, but I think Mya was impressed. We made it to the concert and had a lovely time. We held hands through most of the concert and I must say, I was having the time of my life. The music was good. I had the prettiest girl in the world sitting next to me. I had a full belly of Indian food.
After the concert, we drove back to Platinum's. Smash and Platinum and a few other people were there (the girls were asleep). Mya acted like she wanted to stay awhile. So we sat on the couch and talked. It was great. It was the first casual time we spent together. Just sitting on the couch talking and joking and holding hands. Finally, I decided it was pretty late (we had lost track of time) so I helped Mya load LittleMya into her car. Then Mya came over and gave me such a great hug. I pulled away and kissed her! It was only a closed mouth kiss for maybe 5 or 6 seconds but it was absolutely amazing. It left me feeling giddy in the way only a first kiss with lots of spark can do.
Third date with Mya rating: 10
Possibility of a fourth date with Mya: Very High (Scheduled for Tuesday evening, we are taking LittleMya and LittlePlatinum to a baseball game)
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